I was looking through the local newspaper and found a press release for a “toddler playzone” that offers more play, less structure. “Stay-at-home-moms can come anytime and play with their kids.” It’s an indoor park that is tailored to infants and toddlers rather than older children (i.e. McDonald’s PlayLand). Maybe that’s a godsend to some moms.
But why keep your kid indoors? I understand wanting your baby from getting dirty or your two-year-old from getting his shoes and socks muddy. It’s great that moms and dads want the T.V. turned off most of the day. And there are parents who prefer their kids to interact with the computer instead of the television. But why? Why keep your kids from playing outside?
Even when the day wasn’t particularly nice (as is today), my parents still told my brothers and me to go outside. Besides, once outside, a pack of friends was usually waiting. They, too, had been banished from their air-conditioned homes.
But today, the whole landscape has changed. At a recent birthday party, our kids and I witnessed the opening of presents… first came the Power Wheels motorcycle. Then the DVDs of favorite television shows and movies, video games, and computer-based learning toys showed up. Electronic bombardment. But the point is not learning colors, shapes, animals sounds. The point is human interaction. Technology is unavoidable. Avoiding fresh air is costly, though. It’s pretty tough to get a sense of wonder while pressing buttons – as opposed to exploring your backyard or the woods nearby (if we had any) and turning over rocks to see the universe which lies underneath.
Forget the studies of childhood obesity and atttention defecit disorder and the blah. How do you feel when you go outside? Doesn’t the sky call you some days? Or nights? Isn’t it curious when you see a flock of birds picking their way up the sidewalk, searching for maggots and grubs on trash day? When there is green around me, I feel relieved, less stressed, forgetting the laundry and dirty dishes and the fact that my hair needs washing. By comparison, how do you feel when watching television or clickety clacking at a computer in an paved, non-green area? Isn’t a glance out the window a sigh of relief?
The smarter parents recognize that if a child spends his day glaring at a cathode-ray tube, he is not using all of his senses. Can you think of anywhere, besides the kitchen, that you would use the majority of your senses? Ok, maybe the public bathroom.
Not that I’m a perfect example of what I preach; my kids, too, do not have the freedoms that they deserve as little humans. I fear crime, traffic, sometimes nature itself. And it’s also not about comparing a nostalgic childhood with the childhood of my kids. I’m writing about hundreds of thousands of years of human development. And I’m not writing about trips to Yellowstone or the Amazon. It’s about the nearby nature, that which would instill wonder in a preschooler.
Ty got TONS of that when he was younger, as did Kyle during his first year. Not as an extra-curricular experience, either. Their childhood experience in nature was a vital elemet for healthy child dvelopment. Taylor is missing that. But I let her get dirty. I allow for her to sneak outside and catch a bug or a pebble in her hand… and then pretend, “Oh, my! Taylor! For heaven’s sake. Get inside the house. You’ll get dirty.”