Archive for March, 2007

A Little Bit of Everything, as usual

Saturday, March 31st, 2007
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Yesterday, Ty read, with a tiny bit of help, See Otto (link to excerpt) and Ride Otto Ride (excerpt). We borrowed several library books yesterday, and Ty wants to read them all. He gets a little nervous when the pages have three or four sentences on them. But, well, it’s a lot like teaching piano. I tell him that he already knows these words. And when he finishes a page that seemed difficult at first, I congratulate him. “You see? That’s wasn’t hard at all!” And he smiles in delight, just proud and amazed that he actually did it.

I sat down with Kyle and learned that he knows more than I give him credit for. :D He knows all the capital letters (more than Ty knew at his age), so we should start working on the lower case letters. He can count to 16 or 17 before he gets lost and repeats “po-teen po-teen po-teen po-teen.” He knows that plants need water and nutrients to survive and that the sun helps dry the clothes on the line.

Taylor has been driving me crazy. Her new molars are driving her crazy. She is constantly asking to be picked up. It doesn’t bother me the first several times, but my arm gets tired. Not to mention, I can’t do anything with only one hand. When she was really young, weeks old, people would tell me not to hold her too much or carry her in her sling because it would spoil her. And I don’t think that is true. When she was old enough to move herself around, she didn’t want to be in her sling or in my arms that much. We have a babysitter who comes in about once a week and has Taylor in her arms most of the time. But the sitter isn’t here too often, so I doubt that Taylor is getting used to being up. I think it’s just her molars. Whatever it is, it’s making me nuts.

My friend Susan came over yesterday. She and I have more in common than I first thought. I’m glad that she lives only a few houses down. So we sat and talked about music and scrapbooking as ladies do. I should have offered crumpets and tea as we both were wearing our proper hats and feather boas. Our kids played outside on the monkey bars.

Today we have to go to the grocery store. It’s Saturday. I want to cry. There ought to be a grocery store that discourages lots of people in there simlutaneously. A patron would call to book an appointment and share the store with only five other customers (and their entourages). He or she would obviously have to arrive to the grocery store prepared; thirty minutes isn’t a lot of time to do shopping. Imagine: Saturday grocery shopping with no lines and no bumping into other patrons. Our grocery store offers that environment on Tuesday mornings. Maybe we ought to be better prepared so that we won’t have to go to the grocery store on Saturdays.

Happy Birthday, Kyle!

Tuesday, March 27th, 2007
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We had a party to celebrate Kyle’s third birthday. We’re not big on presents, so our parties are of the potluck kind, which is a lot of fun because you never know what you’re gonna get. I made his cake (two, actually) and Dad made garbanzo bean salad, which was all done from scratch, even the vinaigrette. From one to three pm, we had a grand old time, watching the kiddies run around in the backyard, climbing on the monkey bars, and just being kids. Ty ended up hitting another kid in the face, which is uncommon for Ty, so I assume that the kid deserved it.

We sang “Happy Birthday” while Kyle kept announcing that he was watching the car race. Loudly. The cake was decorated with a big river-like “3″ that ran along the middle so that the safari (toy) animals could take a drink Then it winded into his name. Somebody brought Kyle a Spider-man kite. I’m not one to let the kids play with action figures, but it’s a kite, not a Spider-man, so my dad and the kids went outside to fly the kite. It kept getting caught on the roof, and it was hard to see anyway as the sun was right behind the kite! Perhaps we’ll go to the park with Grandpa one of these weekends and really fly the kite.

And that’s it. On Monday, we kept saying “Happy Birthday” to Kyle, and “Happy Big Brother Day” to Ty. We had some cake that evening and watched Disney’s Peter Pan. The boys fell asleep the second that it ended (about 9:30pm), and we took them to their beds.

Kyleisms

Saturday, March 24th, 2007
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Because Kyle can go to the toilet by himself, he likes to announce it to everyone. “I have to go pee!”
“Okay, go pee.”

He dresses himself, which is a great thing. But he’s punk rock. He does it the way he wants. His pants go on backward, and he likes it that way. We go to the park, “Lady, your kid’s pants are on backwards!”
“Yes, I know. He dresses himself.”

We go to visit friends. “Oh, my. Did you know that his pants are on backwards?”
“Yes, he dresses himself.”

But he knows the correct way to do it. I put his pants on for him when he asks me to, but then he takes them off to wear them backwards. He’s cool like dat.

Tyisms

Saturday, March 24th, 2007
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I catch Taylor walking with a fork in her hand.
“Holy Mother!” I yell as I grab the fork from her.
“Holy Mother!” repeats Ty.
“Ty, don’t say “Holy Mother,’ please.”
Pause to think… “Holy KID!”

Yea, okay, that’s better.

The Springing of the Year

Friday, March 23rd, 2007
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Happy Spring!

On Ostara, we didn’t light any fires or pray to the Earth Mother Goddess. We went to the park. Better yet, we walked to the park. Well, Ty rode his scooter, and the two little ones rode in the wagon. I walked. On the way there, just a few houses down, Ty bumped his ankle against the wheel of the scooter. He fell and cried. He got up and rode again, this time with more care.

A few houses later, I thought we could share the visit to the park with our new homeschooling friends who live on our block. So I knocked on their door. The mom answered. Her name is Susan. They said that they’d meet us at the park. Okay. So I walked, and the kids rode. A little while later, Ty got tired of riding his scooter and decided to walk. I carried his scooter on my shoulder. As we got closer to the park, we found Susan and her kids on their bikes.

Susan and I talked about homeschooling and rearing children and fun things to do around town that don’t require crowds and lots of money. Our kids played together, ate sand, baked cookies using sand, climbed the monkey bars, practiced somersaults, et cetera.

At noon, the public school kids were let out to play in the public park (which totally should not be allowed because it’s off of school grounds and awfully close to the street. It’s not a busy street, but still, any creep can pull up and grab a kid or two and take off). There were at least thirty of these kids who made such noise that Susan and I agreed simultaneously that it was time to go home.

Ty didn’t want to ride his scooter, so I carried it for him. Three people were on their bikes: Susan and her two kids. Ty ran. I tried to keep up while carrying the scooter and hauling the wagon. But in keeping up, my hair got caught in the scooter’s wheels, and I had to stop and ask Susan to pull it out. My hair didn’t have to be cut nor yanked out. Still, we took about ten or fifteen minutes. The kids were getting restless. Finally, we got moving again, and Taylor wanted to be carried. I didn’t have the sling, so I carried her and pulled the wagon while Susan carried the scooter on one shoulder and steered her bike with her other hand.

I was exhausted! But Ty wasn’t. He kept up with the kids on the bikes while they rode up and down the sidewalk. This walk is about a mile, and Ty ran most of it. I was very impressed. Exhausted, but impressed.

The next was Susan’s birthday, but we couldn’t visit her. Springtime came upon us with a downpour. Literally. The whole morning was nothing but rain. Dad pulled out the bins and collected some water. Our county just started its water restriction, and it was nice to have some rain that we can collect for times of “no watering allowed.” We’ll visit Susan today perhaps. They homeschool, so we can’t knock on their door too early.

Our homeschool lesson today is learning to tie. As in, tying shoes. Ty doesn’t know how to tie shoes or even that tying shoes exists. His shoes have always been sandals.

Some doves were walking down the street. The male was bobbing his head up and down, and the female was pretending not to notice. Typical. The male flew up a little to catch up to the female, and she fluttered her wings a little. He walked faster, and so did she. He really took off to land on her, but she flew away. He chased after her, and the two of them disappeared behind a rooftop. I wonder what they’re up to. Ah, springtime.

The Lunar Eclipse

Tuesday, March 13th, 2007
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Note from Author: This post was lost in the shuffle of drafts and whatnot. I’m glad that I found it because I thought that it was deleted forever. Here it is…

Since around Christmastime, we have been looking at the night sky through binoculars. It is quite a sight for me as I’ve never – or can’t remember ever having – seen a magnified night sky. Because it is not the sight of a strong telescope, id est, at the astronomy tower or the planetarium, one can understand what one is seeing through the 15x strength of the binoculars. That said, the entirety of the full moon is in the field of view.

The full moon was beautiful, crystal-like. Last week’s lunar eclipse was something I will not forget for a long, long time. We went outside, I’m not sure at what time, but it was almost time for the kids to go to bed. There was some cloud cover, so it was sad to think that we were going to miss the lunar eclipse. But then Dad went outside again, and it was nice and clear. The moon was blood red, like a setting of the stories of Merlin. It could only have been more magical if we were standing inside Stonehenge.

We saw the last half. Our planet’s shadow creeped away slowly; I really couldn’t see it moving,, but after a few minutes, one really noticed the difference. And through the binoculars, it was even… well, like Ty said, “Hey, it’s closer!” The kids went to sleep, and the lunar eclipse ended.

An hour later, Dad and I sat in the backyard, on a towel, under the mackerel sky, which diffused the moonshine… or made it brighter, depending on the blood-alcohol level. And we talked about, well, I forget. But the cool, moist air and the misty grey color that shone on the shrubs and his face… it was so peaceful.

Homeschool Update, Daddy’s Turkey

Tuesday, March 13th, 2007
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You’d think that I would have posted at least half a dozen times since getting our new iBook laptops. But no. I’ve been looking up new crafts and ideas for our homeschool. I finished a basket that I made out of Virginia Creeper. Ty ate a pound of strawberries out of the basket, lined with a paisley-print cloth napkin. Very 19th-century Scotland. And we have been spelling (typing) and reading words that we use everyday: red, dog, car, snow, rainbow, please, and thank you. Ty typed his whole name and the seven colors of the rainbow.

Kyle isn’t interested in homeschooling through the iBook and prefers to yell the colors and numbers that he knows. As we have been potty training him, he now knows to pull his pants down to pee, but it rarely happens in front of the toilet. He likes to pee in the back patio, in the bushes, in the tub, on the compost pile. Oh well, as long as he’s not going in his pants in the middle of the produce section, I’m pleased with his progress, And he’s been going on and on for a couple of weeks now about his birthday. “Today is my birthday.” No, Kyle, not yet.

Taylor climbed on top of the sink and opened the medicine cabinet, which has only toothbrushes in it because I know that kids will climb up and open the medicine cabinet, but I didn’t think that it would be Taylor. Let’s keep the bathroom door closed, okay? Thanks. She also dances. She spins around as she has seen me do many times, albeit she’s never seen me land on my butt. I bump into walls. And she stands, bounces, and sways when she hears music or anything that may sound like music.

On Friday, Dad had to take my car to work. He offered to let us drop him off so that we wouldn’t be car-less, but really, I had a long list of to-do’s and not having a car wasn’t going to affect my mopping and washing. Before he left, Dad expressed that he was going to be hungry when arriving home and that he would like to have the rest of the turkey slices to make a sandwich. No problem. Hey, kids, don’t eat Daddy’s turkey. An hour after he left, I got into sweeping and mopping, and the kids were really good, really quiet. Too quiet. And any parent knows that a quiet kid is either asleep or doing something wrong. I walk outside and see Kyle’s sharing the turkey slices as if it were his own. I screamed, I cried, “Don’t eat daddy’s food!” omg. What to do. What to do!

Okay, so I dressed them up and told them that they were going to be punished. We walked (Taylor rode in the stroller) a mile and a half to the grocery store to pick up turkey slices. For the first few blocks, we had a good pace, but by the time we got the point of no return, the boys were tired. Oh well, we were more than half-way to the store. We took a mild shortcut when we got to the plaza. I piled them all into a grocery cart that I found in the parking lot. Being the only one walking helps the pace. Ty is a pretty quick walker, good at keeping up, but he was tired. I gave them only that break, and as we left the store, they also got out of the cart. And we walked back home another mile and a half. By this time, Kyle was to the point of crying, knowing that we had food but couldn’t eat it. “That’s too bad. You shouldn’t have eaten Daddy’s food. Now we have to walk home.”

And we made it home, had some sandwiches and left a few slices for Daddy’s turkey.